Learn and share the methods of spicing up your sexual
activities. True enough heat creates
fire, and if there is fire, intimacy and passion flares up causing a hot,
steamy lovemaking.
- Less talk, more Kiss
Never
underestimate the power of a kiss; it's where it all started anyway. Some couples just forgot how the intimacy
works; kissing is one way of getting more intimate and passionate. Start with a soft, light kiss on the upper
lip, then feel the tension heats up and there will be groping and kissing all
over the place. Don't talk while you're
kissing. Kiss the lips, going to the
ears and down to the neck - and who knows where else to go down to.
- The art of Undressing
Show
some sneak peak of your body by undressing some parts of your body then let
your partner do it for you. Remember to
take it slow. Undressing fast takes away
all the excitement.
- Filthy Talks
Let's
face it, talking dirty turns us ON. Most
of the guys gets turned on by what they see and most women by what they hear
and feel. Still dirty talks spices up
the process of lovemaking.
- Massage your way to the Big-O
Start
with a simple massage on the hand or the back.
Let your imagination flow, try massaging your partner using your tongue
or any part of your body. Rub your body
against your partner and see what happens!
- Dance together
It
takes two people to do this, even if you are totally aroused but your partner
isn't then all these foreplay isn't going anywhere. Women usually don't like to be just groped
and start doing the thing. What woman
wants is too cuddle and kiss and eventually leads to steamy SEX.
- Always think it's the First time
This
for sure will always give you an experience you never had. Thinking you'll be doing it for the first
time always excites you enough to give you an orgasm.
- Places you've never tried
Try
new locations you haven't had sex before.
Like around the house - kitchen, garage, or even in your front
lawn. Fill up your fantasies; some may
want to try doing it in an elevator, in a car, public place or on the sandy
beach. I once tried jumping naked on the
beach of Bahamas,
and my partner taught it was really sexy and jumped in with me. We had a really HOT sex.
- Try something new
Don't
be afraid to try something new.
Experiment with your partner, if you feel like trying out different
positions or different styles, GO AHEAD!
Make use of food, scents or toys that can make you go oooohhh and aahhh.
- Take it slow
Don't
jump in to a quick sex after a little kiss.
Take your time, breath deeply, say positive stuffs to each other, and
remember to satisfy your partner and not just satisfying yourself.
- Watch and Play
Like what I said earlier, visual stimulation do help a lot mostly in men. There's nothing wrong with watching some erotic movies once in a while. Try the things you see and watch. It will help a lot!
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